{"id":7079,"date":"2024-10-08T06:23:38","date_gmt":"2024-10-08T06:23:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/?p=7079"},"modified":"2025-01-01T23:08:21","modified_gmt":"2025-01-01T23:08:21","slug":"cum-am-facut-coming-out-si-de-ce-mama-nu-a-vorbit-cu-mine-o-saptamana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/ru\/2024\/10\/08\/cum-am-facut-coming-out-si-de-ce-mama-nu-a-vorbit-cu-mine-o-saptamana\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum am f\u0103cut coming out \u0219i de ce mama nu a vorbit cu mine o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-nu-va-supara\u021bi-dar-brunetele-cu-parul-cre\u021b-\u0219i-rujate-cu-ro\u0219u-sunt-adorabile-a\u0219a-descriere-am-pus-pe-contul-meu-de-autor-cand-incepusem-sa-lucrez-la-diez-md-mul\u021bi-fani-de-ai-mei-ma-recuno\u0219teau-anume-datorita-acestei-fraze-acum-ar-trebui-sa-adaug-\u0219i-nu-va-supara\u021bi-dar-brune\u021bii-cu-parul-cre\u021b-sunt-adorabili-cam-a\u0219a-se-manifesta-bisexualitatea-nu-in-acest-articol-o-sa-va-povestesc-cum-a-decurs-procesul-de-acceptare-a-noului-eu-da-vorbesc-despre-coming-out-ul-facut-in-2023\">\u201eNu v\u0103 sup\u0103ra\u021bi, dar brunetele (cu p\u0103rul cre\u021b \u0219i rujate cu ro\u0219u) sunt adorabile!\u201d. A\u0219a descriere am pus pe contul meu de autor c\u00e2nd \u00eencepusem s\u0103 lucrez la <a href=\"http:\/\/diez.md\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">diez.md<\/mark><\/a>. Mul\u021bi \u201efani\u201d de-ai mei m\u0103 recuno\u0219teau anume datorit\u0103 acestei fraze. Acum ar trebui s\u0103 adaug \u0219i \u201eNu v\u0103 sup\u0103ra\u021bi, dar brune\u021bii (cu p\u0103rul cre\u021b) sunt adorabili!\u201d. Cam a\u0219a se manifest\u0103 bisexualitatea, nu? \u00cen acest articol o s\u0103 v\u0103 povestesc cum a decurs procesul de acceptare a noului EU. Da, vorbesc despre <em>coming out<\/em>-ul f\u0103cut \u00een 2023.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiind jurnalist, am scris trei istorii de <em>coming out<\/em>. Toate trei au devenit pentru mine o lec\u021bie de curaj. C\u00e2nd discutam cu acei b\u0103ie\u021bi, m\u0103 puneam \u00een pielea lor ca s\u0103 simt cum e asta. De fiecare dat\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebam ipotetic: \u201e\u00cen cazul meu cum ar fi?\u201d. M\u0103 temeam de \u201etu nu mai e\u0219ti fiul meu\u201d sau \u201enu mai vreau s\u0103 prietenesc cu tine\u201d. Aceast\u0103 fric\u0103 a ap\u0103rut c\u00e2nd un b\u0103iat pe care \u00eel intervievam \u00eemi povestea cum tat\u0103l lui i-a zis: \u201e\u00cen casa mea n-o s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 niciun gay\u201d. Vreo trei zile nu-mi puteam reveni din starea de neputin\u021b\u0103, fiindc\u0103 am extrapolat cazul lui pe scenariul meu ipotetic \u2013 rezultatul exerci\u021biului imaginar a fost foarte dureros. Dar haide\u021bi s\u0103 le lu\u0103m pe r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>N-o s\u0103 dau vreun nume, pentru c\u0103 nu am girul persoanelor despre care voi relata \u00een acest articol.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"tenor-gif-embed\" data-postid=\"12667788\" data-share-method=\"host\" data-aspect-ratio=\"1\" data-width=\"40%\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tenor.com\/view\/eddie-murphy-shut-up-secret-smile-gif-12667788\">Eddie Murphy Shut Up GIF<\/a>from <a href=\"https:\/\/tenor.com\/search\/eddie+murphy-gifs\">Eddie Murphy GIFs<\/a><\/div> <script type=\"text\/javascript\" async src=\"https:\/\/tenor.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-amintiri-din-copilarie\"><br>Amintiri din copil\u0103rie<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>La gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103 prieteneam cu o feti\u021b\u0103. P\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri nu se cuno\u0219teau \u00eentre ei, \u00eens\u0103 datorit\u0103 nou\u0103 mamele noastre au devenit \u201ecuscre\u201d. Destinele noastre cu acea fat\u0103 nu s-au unit. Dup\u0103 \u201eabsolvirea\u201d gr\u0103dini\u021bei, ne-am mai v\u0103zut de vreo c\u00e2teva ori \u0219i at\u00e2t, \u00eens\u0103 cu \u201esoacra mam\u0103\u201d m\u0103 vedeam foarte des, mai ales la universitate. Ea mereu m\u0103 saluta a\u0219a: \u201eHei, Liubcik! Ce mai faci?\u201d, chiar de fa\u021b\u0103 cu profesorii mei. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een prezent suntem \u00een rela\u021bii bune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen clasele primare, \u00eemi pl\u0103cea de o fat\u0103. \u0423\u0436\u0430\u0441! (Stra\u0219nic!) Abia acum \u00een timpul redact\u0103rii textului mi-am dat seama c\u0103 era brunet\u0103! Era vedeta clasei. Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi b\u0103ie\u021bii voiau s\u0103 stea cu ea \u00een banc\u0103. Am avut \u0219i eu norocul. Eram cel mai fericit. Ce s\u0103 mai spun dac\u0103 o dat\u0103 am mers \u00eempreun\u0103 cu ea la cantin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-amintiri-din-adolescen\u021ba\">Amintiri din adolescen\u021b\u0103<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>La gimnaziu, \u00eemi pl\u0103cea de o fat\u0103 din clas\u0103. Eram cam prin clasa a \u0219aptea sau a opta \u0219i mi-a venit o idee genial\u0103 \u2013 s\u0103 sun la radio \u0219i s\u0103 transmit salut\u0103ri acestei fete. Asta a fost prima \u0219i ultima tentativ\u0103 de a cuceri aten\u021bia fetelor din clas\u0103. Din cauz\u0103 c\u0103 eram timid, eram supus unui bullying sexual din partea unor fete. Erau glume prin care ele se autoafirmau \u00een fa\u021ba altor colegi. Eu m\u0103 sim\u021beam superjenat. \u00cemi era ru\u0219ine s\u0103 pun m\u00e2na pe corpul lor, de\u0219i ele \u00een acel joc f\u0103ceau aluzii de felul \u0103sta. Se excitau, cred eu, din cauz\u0103 c\u0103 nu aveam curajul s\u0103 le ating unde voiau ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La liceu, \u00eemi pl\u0103cea de o alt\u0103 coleg\u0103. Ea venise la noi \u00een clasa 10-a \u0219i ne-am \u00eemprietenit momentan. Aveam ambii acela\u0219i umor, aveam interese comune. Doar c\u0103 nu aveam curajul s\u0103-i propun s\u0103 ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim. De\u0219i nu prea aveam \u0219anse, c\u0103ci ea mereu era \u00een rela\u021bii cu cineva. La ea o s\u0103 revin mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La universitate, prieteneam foarte str\u00e2ns cu o coleg\u0103. Profii credeau c\u0103 noi suntem cuplu. \u00cen anul III, cu grupa mea am plecat la ea \u00een ospe\u021bie, la Soroca. Am f\u0103cut cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 cu mama ei, o femeie fenomenal\u0103. Curgeau glume de genul: \u201eAm venit s\u0103 fac cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 cu mama soacr\u0103\u201d. Problema era c\u0103 \u00een acea vizit\u0103 eram cu prietena mea adev\u0103rat\u0103 <strong>(acea brunet\u0103 cre\u021boas\u0103 \u0219i rujat\u0103 cu ro\u0219u. Ea a fost inspira\u021bia acelei descrieri pe #diez)<\/strong>. Eu am pre\u00eent\u00e2mpinat-o c\u0103 a\u0219a va fi. Colegii mei nu \u0219tiau c\u0103 eu sunt \u00een rela\u021bie, de aia f\u0103ceau glume despre c\u0103s\u0103toria noastr\u0103 cu colega mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-voiam-sa-ma-insor-dupa-absolvirea-universita\u021bii\">Voiam s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eensor dup\u0103 absolvirea universit\u0103\u021bii<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu unica prieten\u0103 din via\u021ba mea am f\u0103cut cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 \u00een curte. Aveam o ga\u0219c\u0103 de prieteni cu care ne jucam zile \u00eentregi \u00een c\u0103r\u021bi. Aveam vreo 22 sau 23 de ani. De la \u00eenceput ea nu mi-a trezit vreun interes. Cu timpul, comunicam mai des pe Odnoklassniki. \u00centr-o sear\u0103 \u00eemi scrie c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 invite la o plimbare. Am ie\u0219it \u0219i am \u00een\u021beles ce comoar\u0103 se afl\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine. A fost prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd discutam doar \u00een doi. Aveam at\u00e2tea \u00een comun. Ea \u00eemi povestea despre rela\u021biile ei, eu despre ale mele (care nu prea erau rela\u021bii, dar pe atunci le consideram a\u0219a). Treceau s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, luni, iar noi tot mai des \u00een doi ie\u0219eam afar\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103. \u00cemi d\u0103deam seama c\u0103 eu \u00eei plac, dar \u0219i mie \u00eemi pl\u0103cea de ea. Unica problem\u0103 era lipsa curajului de a-i spune ce simt. Din cauza asta ea \u0219i-a g\u0103sit alt boyfriend. C\u00e2nd mi-a spus despre acest lucru, am scris o poezie \u00een cinci minute pe care i-am trimis-o. Ea a pl\u00e2ns, a \u00een\u021beles ce am vrut s\u0103-i spun. Iat\u0103 cum era poezia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"tenor-gif-embed\" data-postid=\"8225094\" data-share-method=\"host\" data-aspect-ratio=\"0.833333\" data-width=\"40%\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tenor.com\/view\/shakespeare-gif-8225094\">Shakespeare GIF<\/a>from <a href=\"https:\/\/tenor.com\/search\/shakespeare-gifs\">Shakespeare GIFs<\/a><\/div> <script type=\"text\/javascript\" async src=\"https:\/\/tenor.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-vivid-purple-background-color has-background-dim-100 has-background-dim\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-large-font-size\"><strong>\u041e\u043d\u0438 \u043c\u043e\u043b\u0447\u0430\u043b\u0438 [Ei t\u0103ceau]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d \u0431\u043e\u044f\u043b\u0441\u044f \u2026 &nbsp;[Lui \u00eei era fric\u0103]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d\u0430 \u0431\u043e\u044f\u043b\u0430\u0441\u044c \u2026 \u00a0[Ei \u00eei era fric\u0103]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d \u043f\u044b\u0442\u0430\u043b\u0441\u044f \u2026 &nbsp;[El \u00eencerca]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d\u0430 \u043f\u044b\u0442\u0430\u043b\u0430\u0441\u044c \u2026 &nbsp;[Ea \u00eencerca]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0414\u043d\u044f\u043c\u0438 \u043d\u0430\u043f\u0440\u043e\u043b\u0451\u0442 \u043c\u043e\u043b\u0447\u0430\u043b\u0438 &nbsp;[Toat\u0103 ziua t\u0103ceau]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0412\u0435\u0447\u0435\u0440\u0430\u043c\u0438 \u0432\u043c\u0435\u0441\u0442\u0435 \u0433\u0443\u043b\u044f\u043b\u0438 &nbsp;[Petreceau serile \u00eempreun\u0103]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d \u043c\u043e\u043b\u0447\u0430\u043b\u2026 &nbsp;[El t\u0103cea]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d\u0430 \u043c\u043e\u043b\u0447\u0430\u043b\u0430 \u2026 &nbsp;[Ea t\u0103cea]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041f\u0440\u0438\u0442\u0432\u043e\u0440\u044f\u043b\u0438\u0441\u044c, \u0447\u0442\u043e \u043e\u043d\u0438 \u043d\u0435 \u0437\u0430\u043c\u0435\u0447\u0430\u044e\u0442 &nbsp;[Se pref\u0103ceau c\u0103 nu observ\u0103]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041a\u0430\u043a \u0438\u0445 \u0442\u0435\u043b\u0430 \u0442\u044f\u043d\u0443\u0442\u0441\u044f \u0434\u0440\u0443\u0433 \u043a \u0434\u0440\u0443\u0433\u0443 &nbsp;[Cum se pl\u0103cea unul pe altul]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0414\u0440\u0443\u0436\u0431\u043e\u0439 \u043e\u043d\u0438 \u044d\u0442\u043e \u043d\u0430\u0437\u044b\u0432\u0430\u044e\u0442 &nbsp;[Ei asta o numeau \u2013 prietene]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0414\u0443\u0440\u0430\u043a\u0438!!! &nbsp;[Pro\u0219ti!!!]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d \u043f\u044b\u0442\u0430\u043b\u0441\u044f \u2026 &nbsp;[El \u00eencerca]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d\u0430 \u0436\u0434\u0430\u043b\u0430&nbsp; \u2026 &nbsp; [Ea a\u0219tepta]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d \u043e\u0441\u0442\u0430\u043b\u0441\u044f \u2026 &nbsp;[El a r\u0103mas]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d\u0430 \u0443\u0448\u043b\u0430 &nbsp;[Ea a plecat]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u043d\u0430\u0432\u0441\u0435\u0433\u0434\u0430 &nbsp;[pentru totdeauna]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041f\u043e\u0437\u0434\u043d\u043e, \u043f\u043e\u0437\u0434\u043d\u043e &nbsp;[E t\u00e2rziu, e t\u00e2rziu]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041e\u043d\u0430 \u0443\u0436\u0435 \u043d\u0435 \u0442\u0432\u043e\u044f &nbsp;[Ea nu mai este cu tine]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0422\u0435\u0431\u0435 \u0441\u043a\u0430\u0437\u0430\u0442\u044c \u0431\u044b\u043b\u043e \u0441\u043b\u043e\u0436\u043d\u043e? &nbsp;[\u00ce\u021bi era complicat s\u0103-i spui?]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0410 \u0435\u0439 \u0441\u043b\u043e\u0436\u043d\u043e \u0431\u044b\u043b\u043e \u0432\u0438\u0434\u0435\u0442\u044c \u0442\u0435\u0431\u044f. &nbsp;[Ei \u00eei era dificil s\u0103 te vad\u0103]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u042d\u0442\u043e \u0438\u0441\u0442\u043e\u0440\u0438\u044f \u0432\u0430\u0448\u0435\u0439 \u0436\u0438\u0437\u043d\u0438 &nbsp;[Aceasta e o fil\u0103 din via\u021ba voastr\u0103]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u041d\u0435 \u043f\u044b\u0442\u0430\u0439\u0442\u0435\u0441\u044c \u043e\u0431\u043c\u0430\u043d\u0443\u0442\u044c \u0434\u0440\u0443\u0433 \u0434\u0440\u0443\u0433\u0430 &nbsp;[Nu \u00eencerca\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 min\u021bi\u021bi]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0412\u0441\u0435 \u0434\u0435\u043b\u0430\u044e\u0442 \u043e\u0448\u0438\u0431\u043a\u0438 &nbsp;[To\u021bi fac gre\u0219eli]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0421\u0442\u0440\u0430\u0445 \u044d\u0442\u043e \u0432\u0435\u043b\u0438\u043a\u0430\u044f \u0441\u0443\u043a\u0430. &nbsp;[Frica e o mare curv\u0103]<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Am convenit s\u0103 ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim a doua zi s\u0103 discut\u0103m. I-am spus tot ce simt, iar ea mi-a r\u0103spuns: \u201eA\u0219a e\u0219ti de prost, eu demult voiam, \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103deam semnale, dar tu tormozeai [nu aveai curajul s\u0103 spui]\u201d. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, am luat decizia s\u0103 ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim. Da, era o rela\u021bie \u00een trei. Da, da, sun\u0103 stra\u0219nic, dar a\u0219a erau timpurile. Avea tentative s\u0103 se despart\u0103 de iubitul s\u0103u, \u00eei reu\u0219ea, apoi revenea la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centre timp, noi discutam despre viitorul nostru. \u00cei ziceam c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc dup\u0103 ce absolv universitatea, adic\u0103 peste un an. Voiam s\u0103-i iau numele de familie. Dar n-a fost s\u0103 fie a\u0219a. Dup\u0103 o perioad\u0103 scurt\u0103, ea n-a rezistat lupta pe dou\u0103 fronturi \u0219i mi-a spus c\u0103: \u201eEu nu sunt bun\u0103 pentru tine \u0219i bla bla bla. Hai s\u0103 lu\u0103m o pauz\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Treceau anii, iar eu nu mai voiam s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc cu nimeni. \u00cemi ziceam urm\u0103toarele:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;\u2013 \u201eA\u0219tept p\u00e2n\u0103 o s\u0103 se despart\u0103 de el.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;S-au c\u0103s\u0103torit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 \u201eA\u0219tept p\u00e2n\u0103 o s\u0103 divor\u021beze.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A n\u0103scut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 \u201eNu o mai a\u0219tept.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au durat vreo trei ani de singur\u0103tate, o perioad\u0103 \u00een care m\u0103 sim\u021beam foarte bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-imi-place-de-\u0219eful-tau\">\u201e\u00cemi place de \u0219eful t\u0103u.\u201d<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u0103ind la Chi\u0219in\u0103u, nu aveam timp pentru date-uri. \u00cemi este dificil s\u0103 stabilesc o rela\u021bie simpl\u0103 cu un om, nemaivorbind de vreo rela\u021bie romantic\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 totul s-a schimbat odat\u0103 ce colega mea din liceu (despre ea am vorbit mai sus) mi-a spus c\u0103 s-a desp\u0103r\u021bit de so\u021bul ei \u0219i c\u0103 ar vrea s\u0103 vin\u0103 la Chi\u0219in\u0103u. \u00cemagina\u021bi-v\u0103 ce reac\u021bie am avut atunci! \u00cen scurt timp, ea s-a mutat aici. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 petrecem mult timp \u00eempreun\u0103 dup\u0103 o pauz\u0103 de vreo nou\u0103 ani. \u00centr-o sear\u0103, \u00een parcarea de la Gara Feroviar\u0103, \u00eei spun c\u0103 \u00eemi place de ea \u0219i c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fie prietena mea. Am primit refuz. Cic\u0103 suntem prieteni \u0219i at\u00e2t. Ne-am dus acas\u0103 \u0219i ea mi-a spus \u00een troleibuz c\u0103 vrea s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 ceva, dar c\u0103 \u00eei este incomod \u0219i o s\u0103-mi scrie. Peste ceva timp, \u00eemi spune ceva de genul: \u201eMie \u00eemi place de \u0219eful t\u0103u\u201d. WTF??? Am \u00eencremenit. Apropo, \u0219i ea e brunet\u0103. Peste un timp, mi-a trecut sup\u0103rarea \u0219i am revenit la rela\u021bia ini\u021bial\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-prima-indragostire-de-un-baiat\">Prima \u00eendr\u0103gostire de un b\u0103iat<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tot ce voi scrie mai jos este \u00een exclusivitate.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen luna ianuarie 2022 am publicat articolul \u201e<a href=\"https:\/\/diez.md\/2022\/01\/28\/daca-nu-ai-certificat-nu-esti-homosexual-argumentele-ministerului-apararii-despre-cazul-lui-marin-pavlescu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Dac\u0103 nu ai certificat medical, nu e\u0219ti homosexual<\/mark><\/a>\u201d. \u00cen aceea\u0219i sear\u0103, \u00eemi scrie un b\u0103iat despre faptul c\u0103 el a ob\u021binut un astfel de certificat \u0219i c\u0103 ulterior a fost eliberat de serviciul militar. L-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 dore\u0219te s\u0103-mi povesteasc\u0103 istoria sa. A acceptat. Ini\u021bial, eu credeam c\u0103 este hetero \u0219i c\u0103 a cump\u0103rat acel certificat. <a href=\"https:\/\/diez.md\/2022\/02\/09\/cum-certificatul-medical-te-poate-elibera-de-la-serviciul-militar-in-moldova-o-istorie-a-unui-tanar-gay\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">Abia dup\u0103 ce am f\u0103cut interviul<\/mark><\/a>, l-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 este gay. Mi-a r\u0103spuns afirmativ. Au urmat c\u00e2teva zile de redactare a materialului. \u00centre timp, comunicam cu el \u00een materie de concretizare a anumitor detalii, dar comunicarea a prins cu totul alt\u0103 direc\u021bie. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 discut\u0103m despre tot. Mi-a pl\u0103cut la el faptul c\u0103 era la curent cam cu tot ce m\u0103 interesa. Discutam doar online. El nu tr\u0103ia \u00een Moldova. Peste c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni deja discutam despre via\u021ba personal\u0103. El a fost primul c\u0103ruia i-am spus c\u0103 sunt bi. \u00cemi pl\u0103cea enorm de el. Era foarte de\u0219tept, puteam discuta ore \u00een \u0219ir \u0219i nu m\u0103 plictiseam de prezen\u021ba lui \u00een via\u021ba mea. A venit r\u0103zboiul \u0219i eu am devenit mai iritat. Deveneam agresiv \u00een comunicare cu el. La un moment dat, m-a blocat peste tot unde eram prieteni. Apropo, aflasem c\u0103 el era \u00een prieteni pe Facebook cu mult timp \u00eenainte de a face cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103. Au urmat vreo patru luni de ur\u0103, triste\u021be, dor, ur\u0103, ur\u0103 \u0219i iar\u0103\u0219i ur\u0103: \u201eCum a putut s\u0103 m\u0103 blocheze?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-te-ai-comportat-ca-un-bou\">\u201eTe-ai comportat ca un bou.\u201d<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Prin octombrie 2022, dup\u0103 lansarea filmului Carbon, l-am visat cum joac\u0103 \u00een acest film. Mi-am adus aminte c\u0103 am alt profil de Facebook pe care nu-l utilizam, dar anume acolo ini\u021bial m-a ad\u0103ugat \u00een prieteni. \u00centru \u0219i v\u0103d c\u0103 acolo nu sunt blocat de el. \u00cei scriu: \u201eSalut. Te-am visat \u00een filmul Carbon\u201d. El mi-a r\u0103spuns la uimirea mea. Vorb\u0103 dup\u0103 vorb\u0103, l-am \u00eentrebat: \u201eDe ce m-ai blocat?\u201d. El mi-a r\u0103spuns: \u201eTe-ai comportat ca un b\u00e2c [bou]\u201d. Apoi \u0219i-a cerut scuze pentru asta \u0219i zicea c\u0103 \u00eei este ru\u0219ine. Am reabilitat comunicarea noastr\u0103. Eram foarte bucuros c\u0103 a revenit \u00een via\u021ba mea. \u00cen sf\u00e2r\u0219it, ne-am v\u0103zut \u0219i au fost vreo dou\u0103 luni extraordinare. Apoi a plecat \u00eenapoi. Nu locuie\u0219te \u00een Moldova.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-hu-nea-se-mai-intampla\">\u201eHu*nea, se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.\u201d<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>31 decembrie 2022. Am vrut s\u0103-i spun prietenului meu c\u0103 sunt bi. L-am chemat seara \u00een ora\u0219 s\u0103 ne plimb\u0103m. Toat\u0103 seara aveam un ghem \u00een g\u00e2t \u0219i nu \u0219tiam cum s\u0103 \u00eencep. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, nu i-am mai zis. M\u0103 temeam de reac\u021bia lui, deoarece e pu\u021bin homofob. Eram gata s\u0103 aud: \u201eNu mai vreau s\u0103 prietenesc cu tine\u201d. Pe 1 ianuarie seara i-am scris un mesaj \u00een care i-am spus totul. Pe 2 ianuarie mi-a r\u0103spuns: \u201e<strong>Hu*nea, se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Principalul e ca toate golurile s\u0103 nu fie \u00eentr-o poart\u0103<\/strong>\u201d, mesaj urmat de c\u00e2teva emojiuri. Apoi, am ie\u0219it \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103 la plimbare \u0219i deja am discutat mai liber despre aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie. Mi-a spus c\u0103 nu are nimic \u00eempotriv\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 prietenia noastr\u0103 nu va fi afectat\u0103. Doar c\u0103 de atunci, \u00een discu\u021bia noastr\u0103 cotidian\u0103 glumele gay deja au o alt\u0103 \u00eensemn\u0103tate dec\u00e2t o aveau \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-coming-out-familiei\"><em>Coming out<\/em> familiei<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceast\u0103 noutate bomb\u0103 a fost spus\u0103 la \u00eenceput de martie 2023. I-am scris surorii un mesaj pe <em>Messenger<\/em>. Ea a fost pu\u021bin \u0219ocat\u0103, dar a fost totul bine. I-a venit r\u00e2ndul mamei. Ea st\u0103tea pe pat. Eu nu-mi g\u0103seam locul. Ie\u0219eam, intram \u00een camer\u0103. M\u0103 duceam la buc\u0103t\u0103rie, sp\u0103lam vesela. Apoi, la un moment dat, mi-am spus: \u201eE timpul\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 Mama, vreau s\u0103-\u021bi spun ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 S-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 Nu. Vreau s\u0103-\u021bi povestesc tot ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu mine \u00een anul 2022. R\u0103zboiul, st\u0103ri emo\u021bionale instabile, stres, fric\u0103, ne\u00eencredere, conflict la universitate (la master). Sunt bisexual.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen acest moment m\u0103 a\u0219teptam c\u0103 o va apuca vreo panic\u0103, s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103, s\u0103 spun\u0103 ceva de genul c\u0103 e dezam\u0103git\u0103. Nu. M-a ascultat calm \u0219i mi-a spus c\u0103 b\u0103nuia: \u201eMereu ai fost diferit de al\u021bii\u201d \u0219i \u201eVedeam c\u0103 scrii mult despre LGBT\u201d. I-am explicat ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 asta \u0219i apoi am mai discutat despre ce simt \u0219i cam at\u00e2t. M-am dus la culcare.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A doua zi vine o vecin\u0103 la noi s\u0103 discute cu mama. Eu o servesc cu o \u00eenghe\u021bat\u0103. \u201eMul\u021bumesc, Liubcik. \u00ce\u021bi doresc s\u0103 ai o so\u021bie frumoas\u0103\u201d. \u00cen aceast\u0103 clip\u0103, mama intervine: \u201eHai, gata, gata\u201d. M-a amuzat reac\u021bia ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peste o lun\u0103, mi-am f\u0103cut un tatuaj. C\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut fotografia, m-a sunat \u0219i ne-am certat: \u201eCe, vrei, ca eu s\u0103 mor? M\u0103 faci de ru\u0219ine! De ce ai f\u0103cut-o?\u201d. N-am vorbit cu ea o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi, n-am vorbit cu mama o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 din cauza tatuajului, \u00een schimb pentru ea <em>coming out<\/em>-ul a fost mai tolerant dec\u00e2t tatuajul. Mama!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"675\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/340183534_1410718836368207_2180575706550345924_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7101\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/340183534_1410718836368207_2180575706550345924_n.jpg 675w, https:\/\/bangbang.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/340183534_1410718836368207_2180575706550345924_n-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bangbang.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/340183534_1410718836368207_2180575706550345924_n-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/bangbang.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/340183534_1410718836368207_2180575706550345924_n-110x147.jpg 110w, https:\/\/bangbang.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/340183534_1410718836368207_2180575706550345924_n-585x780.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 675px) 100vw, 675px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-coming-out-la-lucru\"><em>Coming out<\/em> la lucru<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Aici practic n-am avut nicio \u00eengrijorare, deoarece colegii mei de la lucru sunt toleran\u021bi \u0219i nu aveam dubii c\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 pot confrunta cu vreo stare de abandon sau critic\u0103. Primii au fost \u0219efii mei, apoi \u00eentreaga echip\u0103. Aici n-am ce s\u0103 spun mai mult. A fost un fel de \u201ebun\u0103 ziua\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-coming-out-pe-facebook\"><em>Coming out<\/em> pe Facebook<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Ohh, acest moment l-am planficat vreo jum\u0103tate de an. Ini\u021bial, voiam s\u0103 fac acest lucru de Pa\u0219te. \u00cens\u0103 mama m-a rugat s\u0103 am\u00e2n pentru mai t\u00e2rziu.<mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liubomir.gutu\/posts\/pfbid0Aa7c4czA14SXrpZv58obfqGuyBbVb7JsUwDjuVh82JWzvsYjT62Knip3GvKwNLEml\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">A\u0219a am ales o alt\u0103 zi simbolic\u0103 \u2013 10 iunie<\/a><\/mark>, \u00een ajun de <em>Moldova Pride 2023<\/em>. M\u0103 a\u0219teptam la mesaje de genul: \u201eNu cred!\u201d, \u201eNu m-am a\u0219teptat de la tine la a\u0219a ceva\u201d. \u00cen schimb, am primit doar mesaje de sus\u021binere \u0219i zero <em>hate<\/em>. Eu cred c\u0103 asta doar din motiv c\u0103 am o comunitate de oameni care, cel pu\u021bin, m\u0103 stimeaz\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 judec\u0103 nu pentru pe cine iubesc, ci pentru cum sunt ca om.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0103 bucur c\u0103 am posibilitatea s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.worldometers.info\/world-population\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">8,1 miliarde de oameni<\/mark><\/a>, nu doar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.statista.com\/statistics\/1328107\/global-population-gender\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">de circa 4 miliard<\/mark><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.statista.com\/statistics\/1328107\/global-population-gender\/\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\">e<\/mark><\/a>, cum ar putea heterosexualii. Liubomir vine de la Dragoste \u0219i Lume. Chiar \u00een prenumele meu era preinstalat programul ca s\u0103 fiu bisexual \u2013 s\u0103 iubesc toat\u0103 lumea. A\u0219a c\u0103, mama, \u00ee\u021bi mul\u021bumesc pentru aceast\u0103 alegere de prenume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aici po\u021bi citi despre <a href=\"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/ru\/2024\/10\/03\/cum-am-descoperit-comunitatea-lgbtq-dupa-coming-out\/?fbclid=IwY2xjawFvwpxleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHfuWt6K9KESr4y7rhcj02xQVMagZjQGUp6nKqkXX7PaSV-PPK7ict_q43Q_aem_ESik4uiTQW89j6QFHX_GTA\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color\"><strong>Cum am descoperit comunitatea LGBTQ+ dup\u0103 coming out<\/strong><\/mark><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eNu v\u0103 sup\u0103ra\u021bi, dar brunetele (cu p\u0103rul cre\u021b \u0219i rujate cu ro\u0219u) sunt adorabile!\u201d. 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