{"id":6441,"date":"2024-04-13T07:18:27","date_gmt":"2024-04-13T07:18:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/?p=6441"},"modified":"2024-04-13T07:18:28","modified_gmt":"2024-04-13T07:18:28","slug":"12-ani-am-crescut-o-fata-si-imi-vor-trebui-inca-12-ca-sa-inteleg-ca-am-baiat-mama-si-bunica-unui-adolescent-transgen-povestesc-istoria-lor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/ru\/2024\/04\/13\/12-ani-am-crescut-o-fata-si-imi-vor-trebui-inca-12-ca-sa-inteleg-ca-am-baiat-mama-si-bunica-unui-adolescent-transgen-povestesc-istoria-lor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201e12 ani am crescut o fat\u0103, \u0219i \u00eemi vor trebui \u00eenc\u0103 12 ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 am b\u0103iat\u201d. Mama \u0219i bunica unui adolescent transgen povestesc istoria lor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-white-color has-vivid-purple-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-elements-3d637b81d420f927b5a7afd8f907014f wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Scris de Felicia Nedzelschi, Centrul GDM, acest material prezint\u0103 conferin\u021ba interna\u021bional\u0103 \u201eFelis Conference\u201d, care reune\u0219te p\u0103rin\u021bi, exper\u021bi, activi\u0219ti \u0219i autorit\u0103\u021bi pentru a discuta despre provoc\u0103rile p\u0103rin\u021bilor copiilor LGBTQI+. Scopul evenimentului este s\u0103 faciliteze schimbul de experien\u021be \u0219i s\u0103 promoveze strategii pentru crearea unui mediu sus\u021bin\u0103tor pentru comunitatea LGBTQI+ \u0219i familiile lor. Denumit\u0103 \u00een memoria adolescentei transgen Felis, conferin\u021ba este o premier\u0103 pentru Republica Moldova<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>\u201eEu nici nu \u0219tiam ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 litera T din LGBT!\u201d, \u00eemi spune Larisa, mama unui b\u0103iat de 17 ani pe nume Jake. Al\u0103turi de ea st\u0103 mama ei, Natalia, bunica adolescentului. Acum patru ani, celor dou\u0103 femei li s-a r\u0103sturnat \u00eentreaga lume cu t\u0103lpile \u00een sus. Copilul lor, pe care l-au crescut p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci feti\u021b\u0103, le-a confirmat c\u0103 se simte b\u0103iat. \u00centr-o singur\u0103 clip\u0103, toate a\u0219tept\u0103rile, convingerile \u0219i planurile lor pentru viitorul copilului lor au luat o cu totul alt\u0103 \u00eentors\u0103tur\u0103. Au trebuit s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be cum e s\u0103 fii familia unui copil transgen. De la negare \u0219i neputin\u021b\u0103, cele dou\u0103 femei au parcurs o cale lung\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la acceptare \u0219i chiar activism. \u00cenainte de \u201eFelis Conference\u201d, conferin\u021ba interna\u021bional\u0103 a p\u0103rin\u021bilor copiilor LGBTQI+, organizat\u0103 de Centrul de Informa\u021bii \u201eGENDERDOC-M\u201d (Centrul GDM), Larisa \u0219i Natalia povestesc istoria familiei lor.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-intalnirea\"><strong>\u00cent\u00e2lnirea<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Larisa pare o femeie optimist\u0103. Are un r\u00e2set molipsitor \u0219i-i sus\u021bine pe al\u021bii, c\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219te. Al\u0103turi de ea st\u0103 mama ei, Natalia. Doar din simpla prezen\u021b\u0103 a doamnei Natalia sim\u021bi putere \u0219i disciplin\u0103. C\u00e2nd aflu c\u0103 e fost\u0103 directoare de \u0219coal\u0103, zic \u201eAha, acum e totul clar\u201d. Le v\u0103d \u0219i le aud prima dat\u0103 \u00eentr-o c\u0103m\u0103ru\u021b\u0103 mic\u0103, unde sunt \u00eenghesuite scaune \u0219i mese, iar la ele stau vreo 10 femei \u0219i un b\u0103rbat. La prima vedere, par oameni foarte diferi\u021bi, dar de fapt sunt o familie mare. \u00cei une\u0219te un lucru foarte important: sunt p\u0103rin\u021bi de copii LGBTQI+.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Adunarea la care m\u0103 aflu e grupul de sus\u021binere a p\u0103rin\u021bilor copiilor LGBTQI+, organizat \u00een fiecare lun\u0103 la Centrul GDM. Aici sunt p\u0103rin\u021bi de adolescen\u021bi \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bii v\u00e2rstnici ai unor oameni adul\u021bi deja. \u00cen ani de zile, ei au devenit acel \u201esat\u201d despre care se spune c\u0103 ai nevoie ca s\u0103 cre\u0219ti un copil. Sunt re\u021beaua de suport a unul altuia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Larisa \u0219i Natalia accept\u0103 s\u0103 ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim \u0219i, la scurt timp, st\u0103m fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 pentru a le asculta povestea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-\u0219ocul\"><strong>\u0218ocul<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum patru-cinci ani, Larisa a \u00eenceput a b\u0103nui ceva. Era speriat\u0103 c\u0103 ceva se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu unicul ei copil, pe care-l cre\u0219tea singur\u0103 dup\u0103 divor\u021b.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAcum eu \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 for\u021bezi copilul, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-l la\u0219i s\u0103 \u021bi se deschid\u0103 \u00een ritmul lui, dar atunci nu \u0219tiam. M\u0103 rog, asta e&#8230; L-am \u00eentrebat atunci: Tu vrei s\u0103 fii b\u0103iat? Cel mai mult eu m\u0103 temeam c\u0103 r\u0103spunsul o s\u0103 fie pozitiv. Acum eu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 copilul m\u0103 putea min\u021bi \u0219i \u00eei mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 nu a f\u0103cut-o\u201d, spune Larisa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S-a produs ceea de ce Larisei \u00eei era fric\u0103: copilul i-a confirmat c\u0103 se simte b\u0103iat \u0219i c\u0103 este o persoan\u0103 transgen. Negarea a acoperit-o ca un val.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEu nici nu \u0219tiam ce e asta litera T din LGBT! Poate eram \u0219i homofob\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 acum \u00eemi e ru\u0219ine s\u0103 zic asta. Negam, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 poate nu e adev\u0103rat\u201d, poveste\u0219te ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niciodat\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 nu i-a trecut prin minte s\u0103-\u0219i resping\u0103 copilul. \u201eMereu aveam \u00een g\u00e2nd o mantr\u0103: \u201eEu vreau ca copilul meu s\u0103 fie fericit\u201d. Toat\u0103 lumea \u00eemprejur avea alte dorin\u021be, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be bine, dar mie nu-mi trebuia. Eu voiam doar ca el s\u0103 fie fericit. Acum \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 el \u0219i-a ales o cale foarte grea spre fericire\u201d, m\u0103rturise\u0219te Larisa, cu un nod \u00een g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama ei, Natalia, care a t\u0103cut p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, spune iute \u201eEu am fost altfel\u201d. Natalia, care e unica bunic\u0103 din grupul de sus\u021binere de la GDM, e o dovad\u0103 de mare dep\u0103\u0219ire a propriilor convingeri vechi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEu am fost lupt\u0103toare, am c\u0103utat solu\u021bii. Pentru mine a fost un \u0219oc c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a scos toate inelele, cerceii, mi-a spus \u201eEu mai mult nu am s\u0103 le port\u201d. Iar eu pentru fetele mele aveam o cutie de bijuterii enorm\u0103. Tare m-a durut, pentru c\u0103 eu deja \u00eei preg\u0103tisem copilului nostru un traseu, era stelu\u021ba noastr\u0103. Dup\u0103 aceast\u0103 veste, via\u021ba mea s-a \u00eentors cu t\u0103lpile \u00een sus, am c\u0103zut \u0219i a trebuit s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic din nou, cu toate valorile mele. A fost foarte greu, de\u0219i am fost directoare la prima \u0219coal\u0103 incluziv\u0103\u201d, explic\u0103 Natalia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen timpul discu\u021biei noastre, un lucru \u00eemi atrage aten\u021bia: pronumele pe care le folosesc interlocutoarele mele. \u00cen timp ce Larisa folose\u0219te el\/lui, Natalia spune c\u00e2nd ea\/ei, c\u00e2nd el\/lui. Pentru un detaliu at\u00e2t de mic a fost nevoie de un efort colosal, spun ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eA fost un proces foarte greu. Trecuse deja vreo doi ani de la prima mea vizit\u0103 la GDM \u0219 eu oricum continuam s\u0103-i zic \u201eea\u201d \u0219i m\u0103 adresam cu pronume feminine. Copilul meu are un prieten \u00een Australia, cu care ei comunic\u0103 str\u00e2ns de trei ani, \u0219i acel b\u0103iat \u00eel \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 mult. \u00centr-o zi copilul a venit la mine \u0219i a zis \u201eSeth mi-a spus s\u0103 mi te adresezi cu pronumele care \u00eemi plac mie\u201d. Eu am bufnit \u00een pl\u00e2ns, pentru c\u0103 eu 12 ani am crescut o fat\u0103 \u0219i am impresia c\u0103-mi vor trebui \u00eenc\u0103 12 s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 am b\u0103iat. L-am rugat s\u0103 aib\u0103 r\u0103bdare, c\u0103 eu am s\u0103 \u00eencerc. Pe urm\u0103 mi-am dat seama c\u0103 asta sunt a\u0219a ni\u0219te m\u0103run\u021bi\u0219uri: Jake, Jacob, el, ea, nu conteaz\u0103. Principalul e s\u0103 fie viu \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103tos\u201d, spune Larisa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-acceptarea\"><strong>Acceptarea<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dup\u0103 m\u0103rturisirea pe care le-a f\u0103cut-o Jake, Larisa \u0219i Natalia s-au pomenit \u00eentr-un ocean de incertitudine \u0219i aveau nevoie, cu disperare, de o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor. Cur\u00e2nd au aflat de Centrul GDM \u0219i \u0219i-au f\u0103cut curaj s\u0103 calce pragul centrului, \u00eent\u00e2lnindu-se cu coordonatoarea grupului de p\u0103rin\u021bi, Natalia Ozturk, al c\u0103rei merit \u00eel subliniaz\u0103 ambele.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEu nici \u00eentr-un caz nu am vrut s\u0103 vin la GDM, dar aici s-au produs toate transform\u0103rile \u0219i anume aici eu m-am schimbat\u201d, \u00eemi spune Natalia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Larisa \u00eei confirm\u0103 cuvintele. \u201eNu v\u0103 pot reda ce barier\u0103 psihologic\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 treci ca s\u0103 intri acolo, cu ce fric\u0103 intri pe poarta aceea. Eu mai \u00eent\u00e2i am mers singur\u0103 \u0219i am pl\u00e2ns acolo vreo trei ore \u00een fa\u021ba Nataliei (n.r. \u2013 Natalia Ozturk, coordonatoarea grupului de p\u0103rin\u021bi). La moment mie \u00eemi trebuia speran\u021b\u0103, ceea ce trebuie s\u0103 aud\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii \u00een primele zile e sus\u021binere\u201d, explic\u0103 Larisa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Treptat, acceptarea \u0219i-a f\u0103cut loc \u00een rutina lor zilnic\u0103. Cu timpul, Larisa a reu\u0219it s\u0103-\u0219i dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 o barier\u0103 psihologic\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-i cumpere copilului s\u0103u haine din sec\u021bia b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103 a magazinelor, iar produsele de igien\u0103 \u2013 s\u0103 i le lase la baie \u00een cel mai discret mod. Vizitele lor la doctor sunt aproape inexistente. \u201eDin fericire, nu avem nevoie s\u0103 mergem la medic. Dar dac\u0103 sincer, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la asta cu fric\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu peste ce doctor o s\u0103 dau\u201d, recunoa\u0219te Larisa.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar provocarea cea mai mare, pentru \u00eentreaga lor familie, r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u0219coala.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-\u0219coala\"><strong>\u0218coala<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jake a terminat gimnaziul \u0219i \u0219i-a luat un an de pauz\u0103. A refuzat s\u0103 mai mearg\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103, iar refuzul lui a fost o lovitur\u0103 mare \u00een special pentru bunica sa, Natalia, fost\u0103 directoare de \u0219coal\u0103. Femeia spune c\u0103 educa\u021bia primeaz\u0103 \u00een lista sa de valori \u0219i, av\u00e2nd un copil eminent p\u00e2n\u0103 mai ieri, i-a fost foarte greu s\u0103 accepte c\u0103 acesta s-a l\u0103sat de studii. \u0218i totu\u0219i, av\u00e2nd acum un nepot transgen, Natalia recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 \u0219coala e un mediu foarte dificil pentru persoanele queer.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u0218coala e absolut nepreg\u0103tit\u0103 de copiii LGBT \u0219i nu-i cunoa\u0219te. Eu sunt o persoan\u0103 cu valori democratice \u0219i tot nu eram preg\u0103tit\u0103, idee nu aveam de ace\u0219ti copii\u201d, \u00eemi spune ea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva societatea noastr\u0103 crede LGBTQI+ e doar un termen care li se poate atribui doar adul\u021bilor, nu \u0219i copiilor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;\u201eDar ce, eu nu credeam a\u0219a? \u0218i eu credeam la fel, p\u00e2n\u0103 nu m-am documentat \u0219i am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 asta (n.r. \u2013 orientarea sexual\u0103 \u0219i identitatea de gen) se manifest\u0103 din copil\u0103rie. La noi fiecare institu\u021bie de \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt e examinat\u0103 prin prisma standardelor de calitate, iar \u00een timpul evalu\u0103rii e inclus\u0103 \u0219i Educa\u021bia gender. Dar ea nu se refer\u0103 deloc la identitate sau orientare! Ea prevede doar ce spa\u021bii \u0219i jocuri trebuie s\u0103 fie pentru fete \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bi, ocupa\u021bii, chestii din astea. Dar s\u0103 fie acceptat un copil care e altfel \u2013 nu. Chiar \u0219i noi, la \u0219coala mea, eram de p\u0103rere c\u0103 nu avem probleme gender\u201d, spune fosta directoare de \u0219coal\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natalia recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 foarte pu\u021bini profesori pun subiectul LGBQI+ pe lista lor de priorit\u0103\u021bi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCei care se preg\u0103tesc s\u0103 devin\u0103 pedagogi trebuie instrui\u021bi c\u0103 s-ar putea s\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lneasc\u0103 persoane LGBT, c\u0103 aceste persoane nu-s vinovate \u0219i nimeni nu le-a f\u0103cut for\u021bat a\u0219a. Po\u021bi s\u0103 faci politici \u0219i focus grupuri, dar degeaba! Pentru c\u0103 e nevoie de o preg\u0103tire a \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103torilor, iar ei idee nu au despre copii LGBT. Copilul gay al unor cunoscu\u021bi de-ai no\u0219tri nu a fost acceptat la \u0219coal\u0103 la Chi\u0219in\u0103u, \u0219i nu pentru c\u0103 la el \u00een frunte ar fi scris \u201egay\u201d, ci pentru c\u0103 avea p\u0103rul lung. Apoi ce s\u0103 mai vorbim dac\u0103 ar fi mers ca gay \u00een mod deschis. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu vor fi preg\u0103ti\u021bi profesorii \u0219i psihologii, nu se va schimba situa\u021bia\u201d, afirm\u0103 Natalia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eChiar \u0219i la a\u0219a o \u0219coal\u0103 progresist\u0103 cum era cea la care mergea copilul meu, el toat\u0103 ziua nu se ducea la toalet\u0103 pentru c\u0103 acolo nu era o toalet\u0103 unisex. C\u00e2nd era zi cu educa\u021bie fizic\u0103, se ducea de acas\u0103 \u00een uniform\u0103 sportiv\u0103 ca s\u0103 nu se dezbrace \u00een vestiarul nepotrivit. La noi sunt a\u0219a de multe probleme \u00een \u0219coli, \u00eenc\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 la veceuri nu va ajunge treaba\u201d, mai adaug\u0103 Larisa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen viziunea celor dou\u0103, solu\u021bia este doar timpul \u0219i expunerea. \u0218i micile acte de rebeliune \u0219i curaj. Larisa r\u00e2de \u0219i poveste\u0219te cu m\u00e2ndrie cum, atunci c\u00e2nd mai era la \u0219coal\u0103, Jake a refuzat s\u0103 mai mearg\u0103 la educa\u021bia tehnologic\u0103 pentru fete \u0219i s-a mutat \u00een grupul de b\u0103ie\u021bi, ca s\u0103 fac\u0103 lemn\u0103rit. \u00ce\u0219i amintesc de acest caz \u0219i r\u00e2d ambele cu poft\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 uit la ele \u0219i le \u00eentreb curioas\u0103: \u201eSunt zile c\u00e2nd nu v\u0103 mai g\u00e2ndi\u021bi deloc c\u0103 ave\u021bi un fiu transgen?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAbsolut! Am mai multe probleme de simplu adolescent dec\u00e2t de persoan\u0103 transgen. M\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 rezolv problemele pe m\u0103sura apari\u021biei lor. \u00cencerc\u0103m s\u0103 vedem binele \u0219i e important ca el s\u0103 fie fericit\u201d, z\u00e2mbe\u0219te Larisa.&nbsp; \u201eCeea ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u00een familia noastr\u0103 ne-a schimbat doar \u00een bine. Eu \u00eencerc s\u0103 nu judec \u0219i s\u0103 nu critic pe nimeni, s\u0103 nu m\u0103 iau dup\u0103 aparen\u021be, \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219are, am descoperit c\u0103 comunitatea LGBT e mult mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t noi, e un model de societate ideal\u0103 care-i accept\u0103 pe to\u021bi. \u0218i am mai devenit \u0219i activist\u0103, de\u0219i niciodat\u0103 nu am crezut c\u0103 voi fi a\u0219a. \u0218i nu m\u0103 mai ru\u0219inez de mine, mie asta mi-a dat \u0219i curaj \u0219i putere\u201d, spune ea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Larisa afirm\u0103 c\u0103, \u00eentr-un final, a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 pentru orice copil, LGBTQI+ sau nu, cel mai important lucru e s\u0103 fie acceptat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePentru mine, moartea lui Felis a \u00eensemnat foarte mult, mi-a dat un imbold s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 eu nu am s\u0103 stau ascuns\u0103 \u00een vizuin\u0103\u201d, recunoa\u0219te Larisa. \u201eDa, e nevoie e mult\u0103 r\u0103bdare \u0219i cea mai mare provocare, dragi p\u0103rin\u021bi, e c\u0103 noi nu putem pe deplin s\u0103-i \u00een\u021belegem pe copiii no\u0219tri. 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