{"id":5789,"date":"2023-11-02T09:05:54","date_gmt":"2023-11-02T09:05:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/?p=5789"},"modified":"2023-11-02T09:05:54","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T09:05:54","slug":"pentru-mine-era-mai-important-sa-fiu-deschis-si-asta-m-a-eliberat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bangbang.md\/ru\/2023\/11\/02\/pentru-mine-era-mai-important-sa-fiu-deschis-si-asta-m-a-eliberat\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201ePentru mine era mai important s\u0103 fiu deschis. \u0218i asta m-a eliberat\u201d: Vasile Micleu\u0219anu, despre outing, violen\u021ba \u00een cupluri queer \u0219i crearea Bang Bang"},"content":{"rendered":"

A parcurs lungul drum de la outing la a crea o platform\u0103 media de discu\u021bii pentru persoanele queer din R. Moldova \u0219i nu doar. Vasile Micleu\u0219anu, fondatorul BangBang.md, spune c\u0103 \u00een pofida \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103rii la care a ajuns cu sine, dup\u0103 10 ani de la momentul \u00een care a fost expus, a fi o persoan\u0103 queer la noi r\u0103m\u00e2ne o provocare. <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n
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\u201e\u00cen trecut a fost \u0219i dureros\u201d, recunoa\u0219te el. \u201eDar dac\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi s\u0103 te accep\u021bi a\u0219a cum e\u0219ti, f\u0103r\u0103 a \u021bine cont foarte mult de p\u0103rerea celor din jur, po\u021bi s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti spa\u021bii sigure \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi cum via\u021ba poate fi frumoas\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 toate lucrurile negative care exist\u0103\u201d, adaug\u0103 Vasile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Totul a \u00eenceput \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, atunci pe c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0219i descoperea sexualitatea. Primul lucru care l-a surpins, \u00een acel context, a fost c\u0103 \u00eei pl\u0103ceau b\u0103ie\u021bii. \u201eDe\u0219i la \u0219coal\u0103, \u00eemi placea s\u0103 spun c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc de fete, de colegele mele. Dar acolo pur \u0219i simplu era o leg\u0103tur\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103, pentru c\u0103 al\u0103turi ele nu m\u0103 sim\u021beam exclus, eram liber, ele validau felul meu de a fi\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen acea perioad\u0103, \u00eenc\u0103 nu d\u0103dea o defini\u021bie la ce anume simte, dar a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 ceva este diferit. Primul g\u00e2nd a fost c\u0103 face ceva gre\u0219it, pentru c\u0103 nu era nimeni \u00een jur care s\u0103 par\u0103 la fel. \u201ePlus, eu mergeam pe atunci la biseric\u0103, eram foarte implicat \u00een activitatea religioas\u0103 a satului \u0219i poate chiar m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam s\u0103 devin preot. Acolo ap\u0103reau primele idei c\u0103 homosexualitatea este un p\u0103cat, c\u0103 e pedepsit\u0103 de Dumnezeu\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, consider\u0103 c\u0103 a avut noroc, pentru c\u0103 era un elev exemplar, iar asta l-a ajutat s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste prejudec\u0103\u021bile celor din jur. \u201eA fost un mecanism care m-a ap\u0103rat pe moment: se spunea c\u0103 cineva m\u0103 invidiaz\u0103 pentru c\u0103 sunt un elev bun, \u0219i de aici apar b\u00e2rfele despre identitatea mea. Nu sus\u021bin c\u0103 acest mecanism e bun, dar totu\u0219i mi-a permis s\u0103 convie\u021buiesc armonios, pe alocuri, \u00een acel sat\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lumea i-a fost dat\u0103 peste cap \u00eens\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd, la 17 ani, rudele au aflat despre identitatea sa, dup\u0103 ce i-au citit mesajele cu un alt t\u00e2n\u0103r pe Skype. \u201eA\u0219a a \u00eenceput marea dram\u0103: c\u0103 m-a convertit cineva, c\u0103 mi-au f\u0103cut vr\u0103ji. Un an de zile ai mei m-au urm\u0103rit \u00eentr-una. \u0218i eu am \u00eenceput s\u0103 cred c\u0103 asta nu-i normal. Mai mult dec\u00e2t credeam anterior\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Expus, neajutorat \u0219i ru\u0219inat <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, nu a mai reu\u0219it s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 departe de propriile dorin\u021be. Atunci, \u0219i-a f\u0103cut cont pe o aplica\u021bie de \u00eent\u00e2lniri, unde a \u0219i \u00eenceput la scurt timp s\u0103 discute cu cineva. At\u00e2t c\u0103, \u00eentre timp, rudele l-au obligat s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la preot pentru a se spovedi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u0218i eu am fost nevoit s\u0103-i spun toate aceste lucruri. El \u00eencerca s\u0103 afle detalii, era foarte \u00eenjositor tot procesul respectiv. Cumva, mintea mea \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-l \u0219tearg\u0103. Acum nu \u00eemi mai provoac\u0103 durere, dar \u00een trecut durerea era persistent\u0103\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preotul a spus ulterior despre tot ce i-a povestit Vasile \u0219i altor oameni. Iar c\u00e2nd s-a logat pe site-ul de \u00eent\u00e2lniri, a mai avut marele ghinion s\u0103 dea peste cineva din sat, care s-a dat drept o alt\u0103 persoan\u0103, a \u00eenregistrat toate convorbirile la telefon \u0219i a \u00eencercat s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u0219antaj cu acestea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eAm \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nu e o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 ofer bani. Drept urmare, totul a fost f\u0103cut public. Era septembrie 2013 \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bii mei considerau c\u0103 \u201em-am vindecat\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd am fost expus, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 le recunosc totul lor pentru c\u0103 aveam nevoie de suport\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anticipa c\u0103 o s\u0103 reac\u021bioneze negativ, a\u0219a c\u0103 le-a spus c\u0103 e o \u00eenscenare. P\u0103rin\u021bii l-au \u00een\u021beles \u0219i ajutat. \u201eDar au spus, hai s\u0103 facem a\u0219a: zicem c\u0103 asta e o minciun\u0103, c\u0103 cineva vrea s\u0103-\u021bi fac\u0103 r\u0103u. Noi am jucat aceast\u0103 carte. Am mers la Poli\u021bie. Poli\u021bia punea \u00eentreb\u0103ri foarte \u00eenjositoare, ei n-au \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 ajute, ci s\u0103 determine dac\u0103 sunt eu gay sau nu, ceea ce era irelevant\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen anul care a urmat trecea clasa a XII-a, a\u0219a c\u0103, de frica unor oameni din localitate care au aflat despre el, nu ie\u0219ea seara afar\u0103. Dac\u0103 venea de undeva seara, o rud\u0103 \u00eel \u00eenso\u021bea, ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 fi \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103. \u201eA fost un an greu, din motiv c\u0103 m-am sim\u021bit expus, neajutorat \u0219i ru\u0219inat. Am spus c\u0103 gata, eu m\u0103 vindec, am s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc, chiar dac\u0103 eu sunt gay\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu acest g\u00e2nd a venit \u00een Chi\u0219in\u0103u, la studii. Iar aici lucrurile s-au schimbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rela\u021biile toxice, violen\u021ba partenerului \u0219i lipsa de reac\u021bie a Poli\u021biei<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A \u00eencercat s\u0103 construiasc\u0103 rela\u021bii durabile cu partenerii s\u0103i, doar c\u0103 amprentele din trecut \u00eenc\u0103 nu erau vindecate, Vasile nu mergea la terapie \u0219i nu era \u00eentr-un mediu \u00een care s\u0103 poat\u0103 g\u0103si empatie \u0219i grij\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eEu am crescut fiind ignorat de partea masculin\u0103. Nev\u0103z\u00e2nd o rela\u021bie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u00een exterior \u0219i tr\u0103ind cu foarte mult\u0103 ru\u0219ine \u00een interior, toate rela\u021biile care au urmat – dup\u0103 ce am renun\u021bat la ideea de a m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103tori cu o fat\u0103, se construiau \u00een jurul ideii c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 fim v\u0103zu\u021bi cu partenerul meu\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La cel mai mic moment de invalidare, rela\u021biile se \u00eencheiau. \u201eSigur c\u0103 m\u0103 confrunt cu asta \u0219i acum, c\u00e2nd eu sunt super ok cu identitatea mea sexual\u0103. N-am o problem\u0103 s\u0103 merg pe drum, chiar dac\u0103 cineva o s\u0103 m\u0103 numeasc\u0103 \u00eentr-un anumit fel. Nu m\u0103 mai afecteaz\u0103, nu m\u0103 simt invalidat. Dar \u00een trecut era complicat\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai mult, unele rela\u021bii construite pe acest teren toxic au ajuns la violen\u021b\u0103, lucru despre care mai rar se discut\u0103, de altfel, \u00een comunitatea queer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eCa s\u0103 dau un exemplu, eram \u00een rela\u021bie cu un tip care tr\u0103ia foarte mult \u00een ru\u0219ine \u0219i dac\u0103 noi ne plimbam pe drum, la cel mai mic comentariu c\u0103 am fi gay, el devenea violent \u0219i putea s\u0103 devin\u0103 violent \u0219i cu mine. Dac\u0103 lui i se p\u0103rea c\u0103 eu nu-l ascult sau nu-l \u00een\u021beleg, \u00eencepea s\u0103 strige. Mai mult, au fost situa\u021bii \u00een care, din simplul motiv c\u0103 am refuzat s\u0103 comunic cu el, a devenit agresiv, m-a lovit cu capul de perete, mi-a stricat calculatorul, a aruncat totul prin camer\u0103\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vasile a reu\u0219it \u00een acel moment s\u0103 ias\u0103 din cas\u0103 \u0219i a chemat poli\u021bia, care \u00eens\u0103 nu a f\u0103cut nimic altceva dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103-i amendeze pe ambii. Fiind speriat de faptul c\u0103 persoana iubit\u0103 l-a agresat fizic, a pl\u00e2ns o noapte \u00eentreag\u0103, sim\u021bindu-se singur \u0219i neprotejat, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 acesta e sf\u00e2r\u0219itul.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eliberarea <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A continuat, \u00een schimb, s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 for\u021be \u00een munca sa \u0219i, mai apoi, \u00een crearea unui spa\u021biu sigur unde s\u0103 se poat\u0103 vorbi despre persoanele queer din Moldova. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De asemenea, la toate posturile sale de munc\u0103 colegii \u0219tiau c\u0103 este gay, nu a \u00eencercat s\u0103 ascund\u0103 asta, pentru c\u0103 obosise s\u0103 inventeze alte realit\u0103\u021bi despre sine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eErau \u0219i colegi care r\u00e2deau sau se uitau \u00eentr-un anumit fel la mine. Evident c\u0103 asta m\u0103 durea, \u00eemi provoca disconfort, \u00eencepeam s\u0103 tremur, transpiram de la emo\u021bii, dar \u0219tiam c\u0103 aceast\u0103 cale este corect\u0103. Faptul c\u0103 \u00eenfruntam \u00een mod direct comentariile de ur\u0103 \u0219i privirile cu sub\u00een\u021beles m-a ajutat s\u0103 devin puternic. Pentru mine era mai important s\u0103 fiu deschis. \u0218i asta m-a eliberat\u201d, explic\u0103 Vasile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adaug\u0103, de asemenea, c\u0103 ru\u0219inea nu dispare definitiv, dar comunicarea deschis\u0103 poate ajuta s\u0103 te c\u0103le\u0219ti la reac\u021biile celor din jur. Acesta a fost cazul \u0219i cu intersec\u021bionalitatea identit\u0103\u021bilor sale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u00cemi amintesc cum era \u00een copil\u0103rie, tat\u0103l meu biologic este de etnie rom\u0103, am crescut \u00eentr-o familie mixt\u0103 – \u0219i, din cauza c\u0103 eram de alt\u0103 culoare, to\u021bi m\u0103 numeau \u201e\u021bigan.\u201d Sufeream foarte mult din cauza asta. Dar mama spunea a\u0219a: p\u0103m\u00e2ntu-i negru, dar \u00eei hr\u0103ne\u0219te pe to\u021bi. Ea a \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 protejeze\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reac\u021bia de ap\u0103rare a lui Vasile a fost s\u0103 studieze \u0219i mai mult, s\u0103 se implice \u00een \u0219i mai multe proiecte. Nu a a\u0219teptat s\u0103 vin\u0103 cineva ca s\u0103 fac\u0103 schimb\u0103ri, ci a \u00eenceput el s\u0103 lucreze pentru comunitate. \u201ePrimele proiecte pe care le-am c\u00e2\u0219tigat au fost pentru comunitatea rom\u0103. Am transformat ceea ce pentru mul\u021bi era o insult\u0103 \u00eentr-o valoare pentru mine\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218tiind c\u0103 sunt queer, cineva din comunitatea rom\u0103 mi-a spus c\u0103 nu-mi recomand\u0103 s\u0103 fac coming out, pentru c\u0103 nu voi fi \u00een\u021beles. Mi-a spus despre comunitatea rom\u0103 c\u0103 este \u00eenc\u0103 una profund patriarhal\u0103 \u0219i asta se consider\u0103 o ru\u0219ine. <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Av\u00e2nd toate aceste experien\u021be \u00een spate, Vasile a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, cu timpul, s\u0103 nu permit\u0103 nim\u0103nui celor din jur s\u0103-l fac\u0103 s\u0103 se simt\u0103 ru\u0219inat. \u201ePsihologul meu \u00eemi spunea la una din \u0219edin\u021be c\u0103 ru\u0219inea nu ne apar\u021bine. Ru\u0219inea \u00eentotdeauna este inoculat\u0103 din exterior \u0219i este un instrument foarte bun de a ne controla. Iar eu nu vreau s\u0103 fiu controlat de nimeni, pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu \u0219tie cum e mai bine pentru mine\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai mult, a c\u0103utat, prin apari\u021biile sale publice din ultimii ani s\u0103 creeze un spa\u021biu prietenos de discu\u021bii \u0219i comunicare pentru persoanele queer din diverse medii. \u0218i a g\u0103sit o cale s\u0103 se ajute \u0219i pe sine: merg\u00e2nd la terapie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u00e2nd trecutul <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n
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Dup\u0103 terapie, pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103 a realizat c\u0103 nu se g\u00e2ndea la sine ca la cineva \u00een care tr\u0103ie\u0219te un demon<\/em> destructiv. La asta a contribuit \u0219i crearea redac\u021biei Bang Bang. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ideea unui site despre \u0219i pentru persoanele queer i-a trecut demult prin minte, dar a tot evitat realizarea acesteia \u0219i lansarea paginii din motiv c\u0103 se g\u00e2ndea la reac\u021bia celor apropia\u021bi. R\u0103m\u00e2nea s\u0103 urce aceast\u0103 ultim\u0103 treapt\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 ce \u0219i-a adunat curajul \u0219i s-a sim\u021bit preg\u0103tit, a f\u0103cut anun\u021bul \u00een fa\u021ba familiei, a lansat proiectul \u0219i spune c\u0103, de atunci, se simte o persoan\u0103 integr\u0103. Nu mai are p\u0103r\u021bi pe care le neag\u0103 sau pe care le invalideaz\u0103, se accept\u0103 a\u0219a cum este cu toate emo\u021biile, bucuriile \u0219i gre\u0219elile sale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eDe la outing-ul din 2012, la coming out public \u00een 2022, pe care am ajuns s\u0103-l fac cu toat\u0103 \u00eencrederea \u0219i cu toat\u0103 puterea pe BangBang, au ap\u0103rut alte provoc\u0103ri: comentarii de ur\u0103 \u0219i presiune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Societ\u0103\u021bii noastre \u00eei este fric\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 diversitatea. \u0218i frica mult\u0103 vreme m-a \u021binut blocat \u0219i pe mine. Dar dac\u0103 faci un pas dincolo, lucrurile sunt at\u00e2t de minunate\u2026 Sper ca prin intermediul Bang Bang s\u0103 vedem mai mul\u021bi oameni, nu doar din comunitatea LGBT, dar \u0219i din societate \u00een general, care s\u0103 fac\u0103 acest pas dincolo de fric\u0103\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, la mai bine de un an de la lansarea site-ului, care a adunat \u00eentre timp mii de vizualiz\u0103ri \u0219i zeci de prelu\u0103ri \u00een presa local\u0103, Vasile se simte \u00eemplinit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 s-ar \u00eentoarce \u00een trecut, afirm\u0103 c\u0103 l-ar \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a pe Vasile la 14 ani atunci c\u00e2nd se descoperea \u0219i i-ar spune c\u0103 nu e nicio ru\u0219ine s\u0103 sim\u021bi a\u0219a cum sim\u021bi. L-ar \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a \u0219i pe Vasile la 18 ani, atunci c\u00e2nd a fost f\u0103cut outingul, \u0219i i-ar spune c\u0103 chiar dac\u0103 ceea prin ce trece acum e dureros, el o s\u0103 devin\u0103 foarte puternic \u0219i peste ani nimic nu o s\u0103-l mai poat\u0103 fr\u00e2nge.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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